5 ways to make it more convincing

Have you ever appeared impression that your words do not heed, though they hear? If you are broadcasts on the approximation of the Flood, and the source, instead of running to the ark, calmly pulls out an umbrella.

The most compelling speakers are able to light their own words the hearts of millions. But they spent years in training, and has a strong charisma. Assume that neither years, nor the charisma you do not, there is only this article. And very well! After all, it will quickly add 15 to the "public speaking."

Slowed
What is more important for us is what we say, the faster we want to give out information. But, ironically, the less the efficiency of our posts. Take any successful speech. All of them have spoken so slowly that it was possible to write by hand.

How much do you need to speak slowly? For particularly important points speak a little faster than the smoky turtle. For the rest, just say a little slower than it seems normal. It acts in two ways: firstly, it is slow and solemn looks more convincing, and secondly, you yourself become calmer, less adrenaline is released, but it seems better.

Pause instead of "uh-uh"
Why all the curse words parasites when pronouncing them so nice and natural? Teachers and parents hammered into our heads that the word-parasites - is evil, and yet no one wondered where they come from? Perhaps, by analogy, words-parasites can be transmitted when it comes to bad girls?

In fact, the words of the parasites - this is just an attempt to restore the harmony of speech, delimit the semantic units and emphasize certain points.

Instead of trying to destroy the "pancake" and "uh-uh" from his conversation, just say them to myself. Intuitively, you will seek to insert a "pancake" in those places where most needed pause. Check for yourself: re-open any video performances and inserted "pancake" where the speaker pauses briefly.

Use the "awkward silence" as a weapon
Everyone is afraid of awkward silence, and, as we know, what we fear, has power over us. Next time, if you want to be in a conversation from "above", just stop talking. Then watch as the source starts to frantically going over in my head all the possible themes.

Move
Making the person to go for you is very easy if you are at the same time say something. People will do it unconsciously and can go far enough until you wake up. This trick is especially good if you're uncomfortable situation in which someone gave up a conversation with you. For example, you spoke publicly on the subject that you would prefer to discuss in private. Just wait for their turn to speak and walk prophetic. If you start somewhere to move until you say, it seems that you're gone from the conversation, and the source is troubled: "Hey, I'm talking to you!". And if you say, he will be forced to follow behind you, or interrupt.

Emphasizes
Classical rhetoric commits to allocate especially important moments in the speech. But, as we promised at the beginning, we go a short way. Highlights any points - this, too, should be sufficient. In other words, just do not tell a monotone. Here's how to do it:

- Quieter / louder: Some words are quieter than others. Quiet pronunciation effective loud, because that makes the interlocutor to listen, activates his attention.

- Fast-slow: speed also should not remain constant. Some of the proposals will bear. The effect here is the same as with remission. If, following our first piece of advice, you say slow, sudden acceleration makes the listener actively to focus on your speech.